Have you ever seen Rehab Addict with Nicole Curtis? I've seen a few episodes and I don't mind telling you that I have a big crush on her. She has mad skills.
She recently wrote, "Mistakes are knowledge waiting to happen--just reminding you, in case, you needed a reminder. If everything went "right" in my life I would be "happily" married living behind a "white-picket" fence. It's what went wrong and what I learned from it that got me to this point."
I hope that after our struggles, we can move on with new found resilience and strength, and maybe even after some time, gratitude.